Site Index

Attachment Theory:

1) Attachment Issues on the Healing Journey (2/2012)

2) Attachment Theory: The Roadmap for Healing D.I.D. (1/2013)

3) Attachment Theory and Proximity: The Roadmap for Healing D.I.D. (1/2013)

4) Attachment Theory and Affect Regulation: The Roadmap for Healing D.I.D. (1/2013)

5) Attachment Theory and Self Soothing: The Roadmap for Healing D.I.D. (1/2013)

6) Attachment Theory and the Myth of Independence: The Roadmap for Healing D.I.D. (1/2013)

7) Attachment Theory and Caregiving: The Roadmap for Healing D.I.D. (2/2013)

8) Attachment Theory and Adult Attachment: The Roadmap for Healing D.I.D. (2/2013)

9) Attachment Theory and Ambivalent Caregiving: The Roadmap for Healing D.I.D. (2/2013)

10) Attachment Theory and the Internal Working Model: The Roadmap for Healing D.I.D. (4/2014)

11) Attachment Theory and the Internal Working Model, Part 2: The Roadmap for Healing D.I.D. (12/2014)

12) Attachment Theory and “The Risk of Rescuing”? : The Roadmap for Healing D.I.D. (2/2015)

13) A New Room for Tina (11/2013)

14) Marrying the Insiders into my Family (7/2010)

15) Helping My Girls Bond to Me (7/2010)

16) What about Bob? The Need for a Compassionate Approach (8/2010)

17) Holding out for a Hero? (8/2011)

18) Life Lessons 101: You are Never Alone (1/2012)

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My Perspective: Theory for a Layman:

1) A Husband’s Definition of Dissociative Identity Disorder (10/2011)

2) Arrested Development in Dissociative Identity Disorder (7/2013)

3) A Working Theory of Human Personality (8/2014)

4) Dissociative Identity Disorder and Comorbidity (8/2014)

5) Dissociative Identity Disorder and the Truncated Libido (9/2014)

6) Dissociative Identity Disorder and Truncated Abilities (1/2015)

7) Neural Plasticity and Dissociative Identity Disorder (7/2015)

8) Lying and Dissociative Identity Disorder (8/2015)

9) The Rip Van Winkle Effect (2/2011)

10) An “Inside-Out” or “Outside-In” Approach? (7/2010)

11) My Wife…Whoever that Is. (7/2010)

12) Boundaries: None for me. Respecting Theirs (7/2010)

13) Boundaries: Moving toward Healthier Ones (5/2012)

14) Recovering Memories: An Inside-Out Approach (8/2010)

15) Recovering Memories: An Inside-Out Approach, Part 2 (6/2011)

16) Our Healing Journey (11/2010)

17) Out with Integration, In with Cooperation (11/2010)

18) An Expert’s Opinion about Integration (5/2012)

19) Who Is the Best Parent for Insiders?, Part 1 (2/2011)

20) Who Is the Best Parent for Insiders?, Part 2 (2/2011)

21) So You Wanna Be an Insider’s Daddy… (8/2011)

22) Anchoring Insiders to the Outside in Dissociative Identity Disorder (7/2015)

23) The Reason for Switching: Good or Bad? (1/2013)

24) Insiders Are Not the Problem: They Are the Solution (8/2011)

25) No, She Can’t Help It (9/2011)

26) The Linear and Cyclical Nature of the Healing Journey (3/2012)

27) Do You Love Me? (10/2012)

28) How Could I Have been so Blind? Atypical Symptoms of Dissociative Identity Disorder (10/2012)

29) A Second Chance at a Healthy Childhood (10/2012)

30) Regression or Progression and D.I.D.? (4/2013)

31) The Method in my Madness (1/2014)

32) Biomedical Model of the Brain (11/2015)

33) Whose Treatment is this Anyway? (3/2016)

34) Group Integration (4/2017)

My Methodology: How I Help:

1) Wooing the Insiders Out (7/2010)

2) Defusing the Anger of the Defender (7/2010)

3) Helping during a Panic Attack (7/2010)

4) Overcoming Panic Attacks (12/2012)

5) The End of Panic Attacks! (10/2010)

6) Meeting the Felt Needs of the Insiders (7/2010)

7) Meeting Emotional Needs Emotionally (1/2011)

8 Letting My Girls Define the Relationship (7/2010)

9) What is Sex? Giving the Insiders Time to Heal (7/2010)

10) Making Dreams Come True for Your Girls (7/2010)

11) Rewarding Insiders during the Healing Process (7/2010)

12) Me as Mediator (7/2010)

13) Having Their Own Things (7/2010)

14) Me as Mr. “T” (7/2010)

15) Dating the Insiders (9/2010)

16) Interacting with Insiders (10/2010)

17) Raising My Wife (11/2010)

18) Helping Insiders to Enjoy Appropriate Physical Affection (2/2011)

19) Facilitating Co-consciousness (4/2011)

20) Sometimes a Step Backward is Forward Progress (5/2011)

21) Food Related Issues (9/2011)

22) Problem Solving vs. Coping Skills (1/2012)

23) The Need to Go “Above and Beyond” (3/2012)

24) Keeping Sight of the Forest (9/2012)

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The System Network:

1) Gal Pals and Networks vs. Cogs in a System (7/2010)

2) Parts, Alters and Such (4/2011)

3) The Host of a Dissociative Identity Disorder Network (8/2013)

4) “Splinters” are People, Too (3/2012)

5) “Adult” Insiders (12/2010)

6) Insider Roles (8/2011)

7) Insider Rules (8/2011)

8) Best Friends (9/2013)

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Issues for those in the Support Network:

1) Why I Stay (5/2012)

2) How I Stay (9/2014)

3) My Internal Battle with Disappointment and Bitterness (7/2010)

4) Involving Your Children in the Healing Process (7/2010)

5) Involving Your Children in the Healing Process, Part 2 (7/2013)

6) Does It Really Take Two to Tango? (8/2010)

7) The Need for Grace during the Healing Journey (8/2010)

8) Trying to Find Support for Myself (10/2010)

9) Her Needs, His Needs (11/2010)

10) The Husband in a Therapeutic Relationship with his Wife (2/2012)

11) Helping Someone who is Suicidal (5/2013)

12) Why Should a Husband Help in the Healing Process? (5/2011)

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General:

1) The United States of Tara versus our Experience (2/2015)

2) Our Changing Journey (2/2015)

3) The Ring of Power (11/2010)

4) The “Last 3” Insiders (1/2011)

5) That’s What Love Is (7/2011)

6) The Ugly Side of D.I.D. (10/2011)

7) The Difference is the Price of the Toys… (11/2011)

8) Snippets (12/2011)

9) Life Lessons 101: Life Is Never 100% Safe (2/2012)

10) Update: How Things Look 4 Years into our Journey (6/2012)

11) The Last Insider? (9/2012)

12) Headaches and Dissociative Identity Disorder (4/2014)

13) The Delightful Side of DID (7/2010)

14) I Didn’t See that Coming… (4/2015)

15) Swooning the Body (4/2015)

16) An Update on Jenny (6/2015)

17) The Best Advice I Have Been Given (7/2011)

18)Helping Insiders with Impossible Dreams (8/2010)

19) Very Inspiring Blogger Award (9/2014)

20)Is a Person with d.i.d. Broken? (11/15)

21)Update 4_19_2017

22) Concurrent Consciousness (4/2017)

Archives:

1) Why I Do What I Do (6/2010)

2) Honey, I May Have Dissociative Identity Disorder (6/2010)

3) A Three-Pronged Approach to Healing (7/2010)

4) Loving My Girls (6/2010)

5) The Biggest Obstacle to Her Healing… (4/2010)

6) Blog under Reconstruction (7/2010)

7) To the Ladies I Unintentionally Triggered (8/2010)

8) Answering Candid Objections to My Blog (8/2010)

9) Off to the Magic Kingdom (9/2010)

10) From Amy (9/2011)

11) Time Travel and DID (3/2011)

12) Stopping Nightmares (7/2013)

13) Final Healing(?) in Dissociative Identity Disorder (12/2013)

14) Light Ahead (10/2010)

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